My Debt Marathon

Running the debt race and sharing my journey one payment at a time.

February Financial Successes

I haven’t written in over a month. For those that wrote to me in my silence, thank you so much. Your words really meant a lot me and helped me feel like people really care.

As I described in my last post, financial struggles have been getting me down. Unfortunately, they haven’t let up either. Mr. Tech’s business is still slow. He’s got some new projects in the works, and the summer job should still be happening. He assessed a house this week that was recently built, of which the owner wants some high-tech A/V equipment. But in the meantime, we are still waiting for him to get paid for a couple smaller projects.  Once that money comes through we’ll be able to get caught up, but as of right now, we are late on February’s bills.

Despite the financial struggles, I do know that the state of money is only temporary. The amount of money coming in and out constantly ebbs and flows. Sometimes we have more, sometimes we have less. What makes it hard are all the debts that take away our earnings. But I know that I can attract more money, and pay off these debts. In February, I made some strides in helping me to reach these goals. Here are some of these successes.

The Debt Movement

Around the time of my last post, I joined the program, The Debt Movement. Besides helping to motivate me in my debt payoff journey, I hope to receive one of the scholarships they are offering. I’ve been putting all my accounts into Ready For Zero to help me keep track of my debts. Unfortunately, many of my lenders won’t let me sign in through a secondary server, but I keep trying. I still have my Excel Spreadsheet too. Since joining The Debt Movement, I haven’t paid off a lot of debt, since there isn’t a lot of extra income to go towards debt. But I am working towards bringing home more extra income.

Dog Walking

I started walking a puppy. I’ve had my information listed on Care.com for a year and a half. Admittedly, I never finished my profile, but I did list myself as a tutor and a dog walker. I was contacted by a young woman who lives only a one-minute drive from my apartment. She needed someone to walk her puppy three times a week. I go afterschool on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays, for a half-hour each. So far I’ve earned an extra $70 of cash! With this money I was able to buy some Girl Scout Cookies I had committed to a few months ago, and a much needed hair cut! I earn $35 a week, and my hope is this money can go to my Macys bill. I accrued a $250 debt from Christmas. So far I’ve only paid it down to $179, but my hope is to have this gone by the end of the March.

Selling My Crap

So far, I’ve listed a dozen items on Craigslist, of which I sold a camera backpack for $25. This money helped me buy some much needed skin-care products from the Body Shop. This was a few weeks ago now. The Body Shop products are the only face products I can use, and I was out of everything. With coupons, my rewards card, free products, and promotional sales, I was able to stock up $150 of products for about $40 out of pocket ($25 from the bag and $15 from my checking account). I was very pleased with my deal.

I also listed a tv mount and white paint on Craigslist. I had a couple potential takers, which proves to me that people really do want the crap you think no one would want.

Besides Craigslist, I also listed my first item on E-bay! It’s a more specific A/V product that Mr. Tech had. It hasn’t sold yet, but it’s a start!

And, I also listed over 60 books on half.com. To date, I’ve sold 7 books, and just today I received emails of two more sales! Some of the books are only selling for 75 cents, but a couple others have sold for $4, $5, and $15! After shipping, my lowest profit is about $1.50. But for the higher-priced sales, I’ll be bringing home more moula!

My hope is that extra money from selling books will also go to the Macys debt, but I may need to use it for groceries and gasoline.

Document Writer

In addition to my teaching/education related jobs, I also started working for Mr. Tech’s father! This opportunity has been in the works for a while – well, really over three years. He’s wanted to hire me as a document writer, but the job he initially thought he would hire me for hasn’t worked out yet. Instead, he’s now working as a software developer on another project, and hence is able to hire me for this! Right now, I’m just beginning the position, but it could become quite lucrative. By summer, he hopes to hire me full-time. If this happens, I may postpone teaching for a year, so I can pay off debt and establish my art history consulting business.

Vacations

Besides bills, the other stress in my life right now is saving for vacations. I have a few trips coming up soon, so with the extra money I hope to make with Mr. Tech’s father, I’ll be able to save for these trips. On June 1st, my cousin is getting married in Tennessee. I’ll be sharing a hotel room with my mother, so I’ll need for money is the plane ticket, a dress, a present, and some spending money. I hope I can make it. Then for the weekend of June 8th, Mr. Tech and I will be traveling to DC for the One Million Bones exhibit. Two weeks later, we usually go on a camping trip for my birthday and Older Stepson’s birthday. And lastly… in July we are going to Disney World! My father-in-law is treating the family to a vacation to Disney! I’m really excited, but stressed about it too. We’ll need at least $2,000 for my family of four. Comparatively this is a great price for a trip to Disney, since my father-in-law is gifting so much of the trip, but still $2,000 is a lot of money when we are challenged right now just to pay the bills.

How was your February? Do you have tips for traveling on a budget?

More to come soon!

March 1, 2013 Financial Update

Financial Struggles Getting Me Down

I’m in a rut. Again.

I started the new year out with a bang. I was motivated to save $10 a day. I was doing well.

Reality check! I only saved money for one week! Yikes. My posts trailed off. I became consumed with schoolwork, grading, and progress reports. Budget and the Beach actually talks about this trail off in her post Choosing Happiness.

But instead of choosing happiness, I became depressed. I’ve been trying to fight it off, but I gave in. I watched mindless television and did what I needed to do for my teaching job and bones project.

Overall, teaching is going really well. I feel confident in the classroom and ready each day to take on the challenge!  Though there are always hours of more learning and preparation to do before a lesson. And I’ve got a few bone-making workshops happening this week. With each new school joining the project, I am closer to my 7,000 bones goal.

But, financially, I’m in the pits.

For January, I brought in $3600 and some extra from my family provider position and tutoring job. My partner, on the other hand, has had trouble finding new work. He’s got a couple smaller jobs coming up, but nothing big. By the summer, he should have a lucrative job, but right now we are hurting. Although $3600 is a great number, with the shortfall of Mr. Tech’s income, it’s not enough.

I don’t know what to do. I hate to call my student loan companies and ask for a deferment and then have to pay interest on top of capitalized interest. I hate to call my car vendor and ask for a month extension. And I hate to only pay minimums on my credit cards in hopes that next month we’ll be doing better.

As much as I’d hate to do these three things. I think I have no choice. Mr. Tech is just not bringing in his half this month. Or even into February more likely. I’m really frustrated. But I have to have faith. Faith that he will figure out his next move. Faith in myself too that I can do more to bring in extra income.

I have a lot of ideas.

  1. Monetize My Debt Marathon: I’d love to monetize my blog, which would require more consistent postings, commenting, and updating. I recognize that I really need some help with this. I get really confused over the smallest things, and after hours of trying to figure it out, I give up. But then I choose to watch tv instead of trying a little harder. I don’t know how much I’ll actually succeed with this goal in the next couple months, but I hope by the summer time, to start making some money with this blog.
  2. Sell my crap. I look around my little apartment and there are so many items that I know could be sold and removed from our space. That would eliminate clutter and add a few dollars to my bank account. Or to the credit card debt. I actually posted a few ads on Craigslist for some crap. But I really want to start an e-bay store and start selling products that Mr. Tech offers with his business. Again, I’m not sure if I’ll be able to start an e-bay business until March, since a lot of my extra time is focused on my bones project, but in the meantime I’ll post some items on Craigslist and see if I get any bites and thus make some money! Mr. Tech’s parents and a few clients also have stuff they want me to sell for them.
  3. Transfer credit card debt to 0% APR:  I actually called today and was approved for the Citi Simplicity Card. 20s Finances actually just did a post recommending this card as their top choice, so I feel I made a smart move. Besides an 18 month promotion at 0%, this card also doesn’t have late fees! I was approved for a $3200 credit line, in which I’ll be transferring over my $1900 Sears Card balance with a 25.99% rate. I may also transfer $1,000 from the Capital One card too and focus on paying off the remaining Capital One balance of $1100 to start. I have four months to decide. As much as playing the credit card game sucks, I’m happy to be saving about $75 on interest every month. But I have to be motivated and find ways to make more money to pay them off. I also took the rest of our cards and put them in a box, instead of the wallets. I really hope I can attack the CC debt with more force over the next few months. This may be tricky with the deficit in our budget and our savings goals for visiting DC in June. My cousin is getting married in Tennessee the first weekend of June also, which if we could I’d love to go to this. I have got to get motivated!

So what is holding me back?

Last night I talked with my mom about it. She recently became certified as a tapping therapist, which is a form of stress release by tapping parts of your head and body to release tension. While tapping, she says powerful statements that I repeat.  During the process, I can change some of the statements to fit how I feel and that match truths that I think. She’s actually quite good at this therapy. She’s also certified in Reiki. And she’s looking to expand her trades into a business rather than the high-stress job she has for her career.

In our conversation, we came up with some power statements of “I deserve to make $6,000 a month take-home.” This is my goal number, of which I would be able to cover all the bills and expenses. Though Mr. Tech generally brings in his share, this would allow us to still be ok, if he had a slow month.

Now when I think about this number, I also think some negative thoughts. These came out last night. Such as, “I deserve to suffer for my past mistakes.” I do experience a lot of guilt over my financial choices and failed relationships. I try really hard to let the past go, and focus on the future, but these negative thoughts bubble up especially when finances get especially tough.

I’m also the queen of excuses. I procrastinate. Rather than getting my schoolwork done the night before, many nights I’ll wake up at 4AM in order finish what I left the night before. But I find I think most clearly first thing in the morning, and hence I can be very productive at this hour. Plus, I love this coffee time!  Most recently, my new excuse is that my bones project is keeping me from selling stuff online. Which is crap! As I proved to myself today, I only needed 30 minutes to post pictures and ads on Craigslist. Even writing this post is only taking about 30 minutes. I have the time today, other days I don’t have the time (or so I say). Sometimes, I am really tired and I just burn out. But even still, I know there is a lot more I can be doing.

I’m trying. But I need to try even harder.

So as Budget and the Beach asks, what am I happy about?

  1. I have a great teaching job that is gaining me valuable experience for my next teaching position. This may be at my current school, or it may be somewhere else. Only God knows this answer.
  2. I am coordinating an awesome project that is teaching people about genocide and making art for an amazing national movement. I feel so blessed to be working on One Million Bones.
  3. I know I am meant to be a teacher and that I am meant to be an art history consultant for educators. This is a venture I plan to further develop this spring and summer, once my bones project is finished.
  4. I am intelligent and educated, and thus I have all the tools I need to develop my life into what I want it to be and pay off the debt that is keeping me from doing the things I want to be doing.

 

Oh it’s a vicious cycle. It’s my debt marathon. I still have many miles to go.

Until next time,

R.

How do you fight off financial depression?

Did you have success with the credit card game?

January 23, 2013 Rachel Thoughts

$10 a Day – Day 4, 5, 6, and 7

Holy heck – where did four days of my life go? How quickly time goes by!

Friday I was stressing about my bone-making community event. After school I finished up my shopping at Walmart. I requested a $20 donation, but I haven’t heard yet if it was approved. I used my own money instead, and I really hope I get a donation to compensate for this expense.

Saturday was my event, and that took all my energy and focus. Then Sunday, I had to clean, get ready for the week, and we had family visiting from Canada and New York. We actually went out to eat twice! My in-laws treated us last night, so the extra expense wasn’t too bad. It was nice to go out to eat too.

Today I was focused on school and right now I am sending pictures to all the people who attended my event. While they load, I thought I would write this post.

Although four days went by, I did just deposit $50 into savings, which covers tomorrow too! I was already a day ahead, so now I am two days ahead! Since I am focused on school, I’m happy about this. How did I make $50 you might be asking? Well, I didn’t actually make it, but over the past week I got $55 in reimbursement for buying clay. Two advisories at my school participated in the project and gave me $5 each, and then I got $45 at my community-family event. On Friday I spent $5 on an ice coffee from Dunkin Donuts – I gave in, yes, I did – and a scratch ticket (which was not a winner, but I tried). So I put the other $50 into savings!

I do need to post some items for sale and see  if that generates any revenue. But for now I am focused on my bones project and teaching.

Cheers!

 

January 7, 2013 $10 a Day